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Groups from communities traveling together divide up tasks to cook and make sure everyone eats during the trip.
Grupos de las comunidades que viajan juntos, se distribuyen tareas para cocinar en conjunto y se aseguran que todos coman en el viaje.
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During the Salvadoran armed conflict in the 1980s, thousands of people were forced to flee their homes and seek refuge in neighboring countries. One of the places that welcomed numerous families was Mesa Grande, in Honduras, where refugee camps became spaces of organization, solidarity, and hope amidst adversity.
Every second weekend of January, communities from El Salvador—many of them made up of people who lived as refugees—return on pilgrimage to this place. Among those who participate are communities from Chalatenango, such as Guarjila, San Antonio Los Ranchos, and San José de la Montaña, as well as representatives from other departments. As they walk the land where the camps once stood, people remember how they lived and how the solidarity of churches, organizations, and many kind-hearted individuals made survival possible. The shared testimonies help new generations learn this history as a living experience of their communities.
This year, once again as Sister Churches, we had the privilege of accompanying the communities in this very meaningful gathering. Families camped, shared meals prepared together, and toured the old encampments, guided by people who had lived there and who now share their memories. The tour culminates at the cemetery, where many families honor their loved ones with flowers and moments of prayer.
The activities continue with religious celebrations, cultural events, and gatherings that strengthen the bonds between communities and between the Salvadoran and Honduran people. All of this makes the pilgrimage a time to remember, give thanks, and celebrate life, memory, and community.
For many participants, returning to Mesa Grande is a renewal of their commitment to justice, peace, and human dignity. It is a reminder that no one walks alone and that faith, solidarity, and companionship have been, and continue to be, a source of hope. Because remembering together not only honors the past; it also strengthens the present and sows hope for future generations.
Different stages during the trip: The Mass service, the campfires and the walking through the camp and arrival to the cementery.
Diferentes etapas durante el viaje: La misa, las fogatas y la caminata por el campamento y llegada al cementerio.
Durante el conflicto armado salvadoreño en la década de 1980, miles de personas se vieron obligadas a abandonar sus hogares y buscar refugio en países vecinos. Uno de los lugares que acogió a numerosas familias fue Mesa Grande, en Honduras, donde los campamentos de refugiados se convirtieron en espacios de organización, solidaridad y esperanza en medio de la adversidad.
Cada segundo fin de semana de enero, comunidades de El Salvador —muchas de ellas formadas por personas que vivieron como refugiadas— regresan en peregrinación a este lugar. Entre quienes participan hay comunidades de Chalatenango, como Guarjila, San Antonio Los Ranchos y San José de la Montaña, así como representantes de otros departamentos. Al recorrer el terreno donde estuvieron los campamentos, las personas recuerdan cómo vivieron y cómo la solidaridad de iglesias, organizaciones y muchas personas de buen corazón hizo posible sobrevivir. Los testimonios compartidos ayudan a que las nuevas generaciones conozcan esta historia como una experiencia viva de sus comunidades.
Este año, nuevamente como Iglesias Hermanas, tuvimos el privilegio de acompañar a las comunidades en este encuentro tan significativo. Las familias acamparon, compartieron los alimentos preparados en comunidad y recorrieron los antiguos campamentos, guiados por personas que vivieron allí y que hoy transmiten sus recuerdos. El recorrido culmina en el cementerio, donde muchas familias honran a sus seres queridos con flores y momentos de oración.
Las actividades continúan con celebraciones religiosas, actos culturales y espacios de convivencia que fortalecen los lazos entre comunidades y entre los pueblos salvadoreño y hondureño. Todo ello convierte la peregrinación en un tiempo para recordar, agradecer y celebrar la vida, la memoria y la comunidad.
Para muchos participantes, volver a Mesa Grande es renovar el compromiso con la justicia, la paz y la dignidad humana. Es recordar que nadie camina solo y que la fe, la solidaridad y el acompañamiento han sido, y siguen siendo, una fuente de esperanza. Porque recordar juntos no solo honra el pasado; también fortalece el presente y siembra esperanza para las generaciones que vienen.
The year 2025 has been a very special one for delegations. As a team, we have witnessed how, little by little, we’ve been recovering from the challenges brought by 2020. Although there is still work ahead, we joyfully celebrate the progress and the meaningful encounters that have taken place this year.
While current conditions continue to limit delegations from the South traveling North, we have made the most of the visits to Central America. This year, we welcomed four delegations—two that visited El Salvador and two that visited Guatemala.
El Salvador
In March, Wallingford United Methodist Church visited its sister community of Guarjila, in Chalatenango, to celebrate the 25th anniversary of their partnership. The delegation, held from March 22 to 31, brought together 12 participants, including some who had been part of the very first visit in 2001.
During those days, the entire community joined in a series of memorable celebrations, including a Mass in commemoration of the martyrdom of Saint Romero on March 24, and a joyful farewell party in the town square, complete with live music, dancing, and cake for everyone.
Later, from late May to early June, the Decorah UCC and UMC churches from Iowa carried out their first joint delegation to their sister community of San José Potrerillos, also in Chalatenango. This visit was particularly meaningful, with seven delegates from the North participating—some who have been involved since the beginning of the relationship, alongside new members of the congregation. The local community came together enthusiastically to welcome them. Some of the most memorable activities included cooking afternoons, visits to the Sumpul River, and a trip to the picturesque town of Suchitoto, among many other moments of fellowship and joy.
Guatemala
After nearly eight years without receiving a delegation from the North, the community of Chichipate rejoiced in reuniting with their friends from St. Thomas, Indiana, this March. Nine visitors, including three pastors, arrived with hearts open to listening, learning, and sharing with local families in an atmosphere of faith and friendship. From the moment they arrived, they were received with great warmth and gratitude. The visit included a Catholic Mass and a Mayan ceremony, blending both Catholic and ancestral traditions in a shared spirit of thanksgiving. Delegates also learned about sustainable farming practices, visited the town of El Estor, and met with local organizations dedicated to environmental protection. During their stay, they spent time with students, teachers, and health center staff, hearing their stories, challenges, and hopes. Meetings with church leaders, women artisans, and the local Sister Parish committee deepened the bonds of friendship and collaboration between both communities. The visit was filled with joy, prayer, and dialogue—renewing the ties of unity and hope. Both Chichipate and St. Thomas expressed their heartfelt gratitude for this reunion, which rekindled their shared faith and strengthened their vision of walking together toward a fraternal future.
Fryeburg Academy
Finally, the Fryeburg Academy delegation, made up of students and teachers, offered a truly unique experience. Unlike the other delegations, Fryeburg Academy does not have a permanent partnership within the Sister Parish network. However, for years they have participated with youth groups visiting Central America, accompanied by Sister Churches, to learn and grow in solidarity.
The following testimony, shared by Greg Huang-Dale, captures the impact of their visit:
From May 25 to June 6, 2025, a group of students and teachers from Fryeburg Academy in Maine experienced Guatemala from the Sister Parish perspective. Our eyes were opened to the complex lives of peers living on the streets of Guatemala City and supporting each other in community at Mojoca. For many of us, that was an early turning point in our journey, when we began to see the impact of privilege and the power of shared hope for our future together.
Later in our journey, we passed through the Mayan cultural center Sotzil and the ruins of the ancient Mayan civilization. Our visit to the highland village of Santa Anita La Unión also left a lasting impression. In Santa Anita, we witnessed Guatemalans thriving with strength and resilience in the face of historical injustice during the civil war. We heard stories of their resistance, their entrepreneurial work in coffee and macadamia plantations, and felt their warm hospitality through shared meals and games.
At the end of a full week, students reflected deeply on the impact of serving others — a life lesson they will carry with them forever.
During our trip to Guatemala, one moment really stuck with me. It was when we helped paint the coffee house for Marconie. We didn’t do a lot of painting, just a small section of the wall, but Marconi was so thankful that we helped at all. I could see how much it meant to him—he smiled the entire time, and his eyes lit up every time he looked at what we had done. It made me realize how something as simple as painting could be so meaningful and helpful to someone. –
– Zonder
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El año 2025 ha sido muy especial en cuanto a delegaciones. Como equipo, hemos podido ver cómo poco a poco nos hemos ido recuperando desde los desafíos del 2020. Aunque aún tenemos camino por recorrer, celebramos con alegría los avances y los encuentros vividos este año.
A pesar de que las condiciones actuales continúan limitando las delegaciones del Sur hacia el Norte, hemos aprovechado al máximo las visitas hacia Centroamérica. ¡Este año recibimos cuatro delegaciones! Dos de ellas visitaron El Salvador y dos más, Guatemala.
El Salvador
En marzo, Wallingford United Methodist Church visitó a su comunidad hermana de Guarjila, en Chalatenango, para celebrar su 25 aniversario de hermanamiento. La delegación, realizada del 22 al 31 de marzo, reunió a 12 personas, entre ellas algunos participantes de la primera visita en 2001.
Durante esos días, la comunidad se unió en una serie de celebraciones memorables, incluyendo la misa en conmemoración del martirio de San Romero, el 24 de marzo, y una alegre fiesta de despedida en la plaza central, donde hubo música en vivo, baile y pastel para todos los asistentes, celebrando así los 25 años de hermanamiento, amor y solidaridad.
A finales de mayo e inicios de junio, las iglesias Decorah UCC y UMC, de Iowa, realizaron su primera delegación conjunta a su comunidad hermana de San José Potrerillos, también en Chalatenango. Esta visita fue muy especial, con la participación de siete delegados del Norte, algunos de ellos presentes desde el inicio de la relación, junto a nuevos miembros de la congregación.
La comunidad local se unió para recibirlos con entusiasmo. Entre las actividades más recordadas estuvieron las tardes de cocina, las visitas al río Sumpul y al pintoresco pueblo de Suchitoto, entre muchas otras experiencias de convivencia.
Guatemala
Después de casi ocho años sin recibir una delegación del Norte, la comunidad de Chichipate vivió la alegría del reencuentro con sus amigos de St. Thomas, Indiana, en marzo de este año. Nueve visitantes, entre ellos tres pastores, llegaron con el deseo de escuchar, aprender y compartir con las familias locales, en un ambiente de fe y fraternidad.
Desde su llegada, fueron acogidos con gran calidez y gratitud. La visita incluyó una Santa Misa y una ceremonia maya, uniendo tradiciones católicas y ancestrales en un mismo espíritu de agradecimiento. Los delegados conocieron prácticas de agricultura sostenible, visitaron el municipio de El Estor y organizaciones dedicadas a la protección del medio ambiente.
Durante su estadía, compartieron con estudiantes, maestros y personal del centro de salud, escuchando sus experiencias y desafíos. Los encuentros con líderes de iglesia, mujeres artesanas y el comité de hermanamiento fortalecieron la amistad y el compromiso de colaboración entre ambas comunidades. Fue una visita llena de alegría, oración y diálogo, que renovó los lazos de unidad y esperanza. Tanto Chichipate como St. Thomas expresaron su profunda gratitud por este reencuentro, que reavivó la fe compartida y la visión de seguir caminando juntos hacia un futuro fraternal.
Fryeburg Academy
Finalmente, la delegación de Fryeburg Academy, conformada por un grupo de estudiantes y maestros, ofreció una experiencia única. A diferencia de las demás, Fryeburg Academy no tiene un hermanamiento permanente dentro de la familia de Iglesias Hermanas, pero durante años ha participado con grupos de jóvenes que visitan Centroamérica, acompañados por Iglesias Hermanas, para aprender y crecer en solidaridad.
El siguiente testimonio, compartido por Greg Huang-Dale, resume el impacto de su visita:
Del 25 de mayo al 6 de junio de 2025, un grupo de estudiantes y maestros de Fryeburg Academy, en Maine, vivieron la experiencia de Guatemala desde la perspectiva de Sister Parish. Nuestros ojos se abrieron ante la complejidad de las vidas de nuestros compañeros que viven en las calles de la Ciudad de Guatemala y que se apoyan mutuamente en comunidad en Mojoca. Para muchos de nosotros, ese fue un punto de inflexión en nuestro camino, cuando comenzamos a reconocer el impacto del privilegio y el poder de una esperanza compartida por nuestro futuro común.
Más adelante en nuestro recorrido, visitamos el centro cultural maya Sotzil y las ruinas de la antigua civilización maya. Nuestra visita al pueblo montañoso de Santa Anita La Unión también dejó una profunda huella. En Santa Anita conocimos y experimentamos la fortaleza y resiliencia del pueblo guatemalteco frente a la injusticia histórica vivida durante la guerra civil. Escuchamos historias de su resistencia durante el conflicto, sus esfuerzos emprendedores en las plantaciones de café y macadamia, y sentimos su cálida hospitalidad a través de las comidas y los juegos compartidos.
Al finalizar una semana llena de actividades, los estudiantes reflexionaron sobre el profundo impacto de servir a los demás —una lección de vida que llevarán siempre consigo.
Durante nuestro viaje a Guatemala, hubo un momento que me impactó profundamente. Fue cuando ayudamos a pintar la cafetería de Marconie. No pintamos mucho, solo una pequeña sección de la pared, pero Marconie estaba muy agradecido de nuestra ayuda. Pude ver cuánto significaba para él: sonrió todo el tiempo y sus ojos se iluminaban cada vez que veía lo que habíamos hecho. Me hizo darme cuenta de cómo algo tan simple como pintar podía ser tan significativo y útil para alguien.–
-Zonder
Puedes ver los álbumes de fotos en los siguientes enlaces:
From August 28 to 31, 2025, the community of Las Margaritas 2, Ixcán, Quiché, hosted the annual meeting of the Board of Directors and representatives of Sister Parish. For four days, members of the Guatemala Board of Directors, community representatives, and church committees shared experiences, made important decisions, and celebrated the cultural richness of the region.
The meeting brought together representatives who traveled up to 10 hours by bus to participate. Their presence reflected the commitment to collective work and the importance of walking together, from north to south, in building a more united and supportive community.
A hospitable welcome
The Las Margaritas 2 Sister Parish Committee and Scholarship Committee dedicated themselves to welcoming the visitors. In addition, the scholarship students organized a cultural evening, which became a space for meeting and celebrating local identity. Music, dance, and traditions intertwined to welcome the delegates and share community life with them.
Key Progress and Decisions
The Board of Directors sessions were fruitful and characterized by openness and shared reflection. Key agreements included:
Updating the Board of Directors’ bylaws.
Defining the 2026 delegations.
Progress in standardizing scholarship programs.
Planning future Board of Directors meetings.
Organization of the next Southern Gathering in Guatemala.
These points will mark the work of Sister Parish in the coming years and reinforce their vision of mutual accompaniment and service.
Encounters with nature and solidarity
The program also included opportunities for socializing. Participants visited Laguna Lachuá National Park, where they enjoyed the natural beauty and renew their strength in the midst of creation. Afterward, a solidarity visit was made to the Virginia community, twinned with East Orrington, where the local committees welcomed the members of the Board of Directors with joy and gratitude.
A Shared Journey
The annual meeting at Las Margaritas 2 not only strengthened the organizational structures of the Sister Parish, but also renewed the spirit of fraternity and commitment to the communities. Amid reflection, culture, and nature, this gathering reminded us that the mission of walking together remains alive and looks forward with hope to the future.
Laguna LachuaCultural Event / Evento CulturalMeeting at the church / Reunión en la iglesiaSolidarity visit of the Board of Directors to Virginia, Ixcan Quiche / Visita solidaria de la Junta Directiva a Virginia, Ixcan Quiche
Del 28 al 31 de agosto de 2025, la comunidad de Las Margaritas 2, Ixcán, Quiché, fue la sede de la reunión anual de la Junta Directiva y representantes de Iglesias Hermanas. Durante cuatro días miembros de la Junta Directiva, representantes de comunidades y comités de hermanamientos compartieron experiencias, tomaron decisiones importantes y celebraron la riqueza cultural de la región.
El encuentro reunió a representantes que viajaron hasta 10 horas en bus para participar. La presencia reflejó el compromiso con el trabajo colectivo y la importancia de caminar juntos, desde el norte hasta el sur, en la construcción de una comunidad más unida y solidaria.
Un recibimiento lleno de hospitalidad
El Comité de Hermanamiento y el Comité de Becas de Las Margaritas 2 asumieron con dedicación la tarea de recibir a los visitantes. Además, los estudiantes becados organizaron una noche cultural, que se convirtió en un espacio de encuentro y celebración de la identidad local. Música, danza y tradiciones se entrelazaron para dar la bienvenida a los delegados y compartir con ellos la vida comunitaria.
Avances y decisiones clave
Las sesiones de la Junta Directiva fueron fructíferas y se caracterizaron por la apertura y la reflexión conjunta. Entre los principales acuerdos se destacan:
Actualización del estatuto de la Junta Directiva.
Definición de las delegaciones 2026.
Avances en la estandarización de los programas de becas.
Planificación de futuras reuniones de la Junta Directiva.
Organización del próximo Encuentro Sur en Guatemala.
Estos puntos marcarán la ruta de trabajo de Iglesias Hermanas en los próximos años y refuerzan su visión de acompañamiento y servicio mutuo.
Encuentros con la naturaleza y la solidaridad
El programa también incluyó espacios para la convivencia. Los participantes visitaron el Parque Nacional Laguna Lachuá, donde disfrutaron de la belleza natural del lugar y renovaron fuerzas en medio de la creación. Posteriormente, se realizó una visita solidaria a la comunidad de Virginia, hermanada con East Orrington, donde los comités locales recibieron con alegría y agradecimiento a los miembros de la Junta Directiva.
Un camino compartido
La reunión anual en Las Margaritas 2 no solo fortaleció las estructuras organizativas de Iglesias Hermanas, sino que también renovó el espíritu de fraternidad y compromiso con las comunidades. Entre la reflexión, la cultura y la naturaleza, este encuentro recordó que la misión de caminar juntos sigue viva y se proyecta con esperanza hacia el futuro
We had the blessing to participate in the Southern Encounter, where representatives from every community in Guatemala and El Salvador traveled to Chichicastenango (Guatemala) and there, together with the group from the Open Delegation, we spent the weekend, learning from each other, laughing, singing and sharing.
The Southern Encounter, which includes representatives from every Sister Parish community in Guatemala and El Salvador, traveled to Chichicastenango (Guatemala) for their annual gathering. There, the group shares about their communities, plan activities together for the following years, each country participates on the cultural interchange, either with music, dancing or any artistic expression that represents their country; there are a couple of speakers who’ll talk about a topic that everyone is interested on, like this year, where Miriam Lopez from El Salvador, share about Human Rights and violence against women and what the local organizations are doing about it. The Open Delegation joined them, and spent the weekend together. It was a great time getting to know everyone, learning from each other, laughing, singing and sharing about our communities, like Oscar from Tierra Nueva 2, who shared that they received recently a delegation from Saint Joan of Arc, and they celebrated their 30th anniversary of relationship!
This was a great time for everyone to know each other, share about their communities and learn from the others about what it’s done between other relationships.
After the Southern Encounter, the group from the Open Delegation traveled to San Antonio Cunen. The three delegates belong to Danville Congregational Church (California) and had the blessing to visit their sister community (San Antonio Cunen) for a couple of days.
With the community, we traveled to Rio San Juan to spend a wonderful day together. There we started with a bible reflection, where everyone participated, they we had lunch together and spent the rest of the afternoon enjoying the views, the river, and chatting. At the community we visited families and prayed with them, shared meals together and participated at church. We had the chance to broadcast the service and had a simultaneous participation of the group back in California, there was music, praying and a bible reflection, it was amazing to see all the participation from each community, and especially the young ones who are now active in the relationship. This opportunity to broadcast the call was memorable, as it is the very first time both communities could do it together.
This experience encouraged the delegates, who returned home and shared their experiences to the congregation and now they are starting to plan a Delegation South to North!
Pictures and delegate reflections from St Joan of Arc’s visit to TN2 in October 2024.
by Luke Nohner
Before being embraced by the families of TNII, I didn’t fully understand what it means to be human.
I’m struggling to apply language to what I’ve experienced here in Guatemala; and even now as I type, these words seem ornamental, saccharine almost, because this experience exists at such a fundamental depth. No language can truly dictate this vividly human experience. But I can try.
The shared existence that is the “Sister Parish Delegation,” is one of eating, laughing, dancing, living, loving, crying.
It’s strangers welcoming you into their home of corrugated aluminum and cinder blocks, making you meals their mother taught them to make, giving you their bed, all despite them not having running water for four days.
It’s twenty children under 10 years old who refuse to let the fact that you don’t speak Spanish stop them from making you their best friend.
It’s sitting next to your host father, phones in hand, scrolling through your photos — armed with the words for friends, son/daughter, husband/wife, mother/father — only to realize that his photo album is nothing but friends and family, while you have to scroll and scroll to find a fraction of pictures of the people important to you.
It’s the realization our society may deem the people of TNII economically impoverished, but their connection with each other and the things they love is so rich, that your life compared seems colorless.
The pictures shared attempt to portray this, the stories shared barely scratch the surface. The only way to understand this experience is being here. And by being here, I have been introduced to humanity, and what it means to love, on a level I once could not comprehend.
Thoughts on Solidarity:
Solidarity — prior to this trip — was a word I gave little thought to. I would not have been able to give a real definition, the word invoking the image of a raised fist, but nothing more. Though, I have come to understand Solidarity as a vital tool required in the building of a world comprising equality, justice, and peace.
Solidarity is not dropping food off to your neighbor in need; it is knocking on the door and sharing a meal together; and around that table, amidst the laughter, conversations of weather, and discussion of deep and dark struggles, discovering an agreement of feelings, from there working towards mutual support of each other.
It is the recognition that your own idiosyncrasies are created by your personal experiences and cultural background; and that the solution to the problems of the world we so seek may lie outside of those idiosyncrasies.
Solidarity requires the analysis of one’s own thoughts and behaviors, and accepting that they may not always be helpful, despite intentions. Such as, to impose Western/American values. We may perceive a strong house with a waterproof roof to be vital for a child. Though sit down with a family living in a one-room home where the rain comes in, listening for what actions could lead to the betterment of their situation, and you may learn that support in the development of community based programs would protect that child tenfold what a new gifted home could.
Pictures and delegate reflections from St Joan of Arc’s visit to Tierra Nueva 2 in October 2024.
by Nancy Wiens
My story with Sister Parish began 20 years ago when I met and married my husband Rick. He was already actively involved with Sister Parish and had been on SJA’s second-ever delegation to Tierra Nueva Dos (TN2) in 1996. He invited me into this Sister Parish relationship; he said “come and see”…and I did. Our first delegation together was in 2008 and it started me on a journey including multiple trips to Guatemala as well as a six-year term on the board of directors of the national Sister Parish organization. I like to say that I married into Sister Parish!
I’ve been on several delegations and I liken my Sister Parish journey to peeling the layers of an onion. The first layer is simply discovering that delegation travel is a unique way to experience another culture. Living with families and being immersed in their community is a great way to get “under the skin” of a country and a people.
And then I discovered how rich it is to travel in delegation. Delegates to our Sister Parish go through months of orientation and preparation together. When we are in Guatemala, Sister Parish staff and members of TNII are with us in the community and as we travel around the country. We gathered every day to reflect on our experiences and our faith, and those discussions were a diverse tapestry of ideas and opinions.
And I’m continuing to peel layers to reach the core of this experience. We go on delegation to learn, to grow together, to make connections and deepen relationships, to be inspired to take action toward a better world. The love we receive when we arrive is quickly apparent to everyone, but it’s even richer to share that love with people we’ve known for years. As fellow delegate Marty said: “Our project on this delegation is to build bigger hearts”.
This delegation felt momentous because we’re celebrating 30 years of relationship, or ‘hermanamiento’ in Spanish. In 1994 our two communities came together in tumultuous times — across different cultures, languages, economic status and thousands of miles — to forge a relationship in faith and solidarity that continues to grow and nurture us. To celebrate, the community of TN2 threw a big fiesta with a marimba band, dancing, a delicious meal of pepián and cake, and a piñata for the kids. We heard from people who had been instrumental in the beginning of the relationship. One of the early members reminisced that in the beginning she considered getting everyone rings, like wedding rings, to symbolize their commitment to this newly formed relationship.
I like to think of this relationship as a river that flows on and on. We’re on the river, our boats bobbing along with the current. Some people are sliding into the river now, for the first time. Others have put their boats on the river before us; they’re far ahead and out of sight. This 30-year hermanamiento has such weight and presence because we stand on the shoulders of those who went before us. They left a remarkable legacy.
Back home in Minnesota, during our final reflection as delegates, I was challenged to write a letter to myself stating what I had learned during my time in Guatemala and how I hope to build on those learnings. I’ll open that letter in a year’s time to see how I did. Here’s an excerpt of what I wrote to my future self:
In July 2024, members of Downers Grove First United Methodist Church visited their sister community at UPAVIM in Guatemala. We share some pictures from the delegation and some reflections from the women of UPAVIM.
I am thankful to God and to our sisters that the delegation came to visit. They encourage us to keep working with our community. And we are so grateful to the church for helping our scholarship students. – Conchita
I am so glad the sisters came and stayed in the UPAVIM building. I had the chance to come and visit with them. – Francis
I am very grateful to God because in this delegation I was able to spend more time with the sisters. It was a blessing. – Anita.
Thanks to Our Lord the sisters came and I loved all the activities. – Estelita
I am thankful to God. It was a beautiful time. We ate, we played, we cried, we prayed, we laughed. – Angela
En julio de 2024, miembros de la Primera Iglesia Metodista Unida de Downers Grove visitaron su comunidad hermana en UPAVIM en Guatemala. Compartimos algunas fotos de la delegación y algunas reflexiones de las mujeres de UPAVIM.
Estoy agradecida con Dios y con nuestras hermanas porque la delegación vino a visitarnos. Nos animan a seguir trabajando con nuestra comunidad. Y estamos muy agradecidos con la iglesia por ayudar a nuestros estudiantes becados. – Conchita
Estoy tan contenta de que las hermanas vinieran y se quedaran en el edificio de UPAVIM. Tuve la oportunidad de venir y compartir con ellas. – Francis
Estoy muy agradecida con Dios porque en esta delegación pude pasar más tiempo con las hermanas. Fue una bendición. – Anita.
Gracias a Nuestro Señor vinieron las hermanas y me encantaron todas las actividades. – Estelita
Estoy agradecida con Dios. Fue un tiempo hermoso. Comimos, jugamos, lloramos, oramos, reímos. – Angela
Patricia Cespedes-Schueller, a member of the Sister Parish Board of Directors, gave the following talk during a Sister Parish-themed service at Wallingford United Methodist Church in Seattle, Washington. The Sister Parish board rotates the location of meetings to visit current and potential Sister Parish churches. Contact us if you would like to host our board for a meeting. It is a great opportunity to gather and share Sister Parish with more people.
Buenos días, Good Morning, my name is Patricia Cespedes-Schueller I am a member of a Catholic community called Saint Joan of Arc (SJA) located in Minnesota. SJA has been walking in solidarity with Tierra Nueva II in Guatemala for more than 26 years and our relationship gets stronger every year. In preparation for this talk, there was one reading in particular that called my attention: Acts 4:32. “Now, all the believers were one in heart and soul. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had.”
The acts of the apostles tell us about the profound spirit of community within the early church. In the same way, I feel that our relationship with the community of TN II in Guatemala follows the same spirit. When our two communities encountered each other more than 26 years ago, this profound encounter moved us to open not only our hearts, but also our lives and share our struggles together and understand injustices and possibilities.
My daughter and I traveled to Guatemala to visit TN II in August of 2018. We had the honor to stay with a family which consisted of a mom, a dad and two daughters. We slept in the best bed they had in the house and sat in the best places at the table when sharing a meal. They explained their identity as a mixed family, Ladina (of mixed Indigenous and European descent) and Garifuna (of Afro-Caribbean descent), with pride in their heritage. The dad was not in town when we were staying with his family due to the lack of jobs in the area. He needed to travel far away to find jobs. Sometimes he could not find work for long periods of time. The mom had a small room where she sold bread that she picked up from the bakery at 4:30 am. In addition, she sold some homemade “empanadas” which are small pies made by wrapping a pastry around cheese in this case. She sold these things to provide for her daughters. The older daughter was studying to be a teacher, but at the same time, she also needed to work to help the family, and her commute was long, and her days were very tiring. The younger daughter was still in high school. Both daughters were very dedicated students. A year later, I learned that the dad’s health had worsened, and he could not work any longer, and the older daughter stopped studying to support her family.
This family shared their lives with us. We talked for hours telling each other funny and sad family stories. We sang together. We danced. I helped the mom to cook empanadas at 4am in the morning one day. My daughter dressed up in some of the daughters’ dresses just for fun. The three young women played a game called Dos (a version of the game Uno in USA). We took many pictures. We shared so many meals together even when we were not hungry at all. One day I mentioned that I liked a fruit called lychee and the next day I had many waiting for me at the house. We talked with the dad on the phone because they wanted to share that with us. We were a family united in one heart and soul.
This is what sister parish offered to my daughter and I, a real encounter with real people, the gift to struggle for justice together with our brothers and sisters in TN II. The understanding that our families had many similarities, but also the awareness that our geographic locations either limited or offered more opportunities to us, and the realization that the injustices were keeping us from fully answering our call to be a community who shared everything together, to fully be a family.
After my visit to TN II in Guatemala I joined the Sister Parish community at Saint Joan of Arc and later I joined the board of Sister Parish Inc. The Acts of the Apostles says, “Now, all the believers were one in heart and soul. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had.” Sister Parish offered us the opportunity to share our lives, to be One with our brothers and sisters in TN II, Guatemala and that is a gift that we accepted. I know many of you are sharing your lives with Guatemalans and Salvadorans, but there is always more space for more to join us in this journey.
Buenos días, mi nombre es Patricia Céspedes-Schueller. Soy miembro de la Comunidad Católica de Santa Juana de Arco (SJA) en Minnesota. SJA ha estado caminando en solidaridad con Tierra Nueva II en Guatemala por más de 26 años y nuestro hermanamiento se fortalece cada año. En preparación para esta charla, una lectura en particular me llamó la atención: Hechos 4:32. “La multitud de los que creyeron era de un corazón y un alma. Ninguno decía ser suyo lo que poseía, sino que todas las cosas eran de propiedad común.”
Los Hechos de los apóstoles nos hablan del profundo espíritu de comunidad dentro de la iglesia en ese entonces. De la misma manera, siento que nuestro hermanamiento con la comunidad de TN II en Guatemala sigue en el mismo espíritu.
Cuando nuestras dos comunidades se encontraron hace más de 26 años, este profundo encuentro nos movió a abrir no solo nuestros corazones, sino también nuestras vidas y compartir nuestras luchas, así como comprender las injusticias y las posibilidades.
Mi hija y yo viajamos a Guatemala para visitar TN II en agosto de 2018. Tuvimos el honor de quedarnos con una familia: una mamá, un papá y dos hijas. Dormimos en la mejor cama que tenían en la casa y nos sentamos en los mejores lugares de la mesa cuando compartíamos una comida. Nos explicaron su identidad como una familia mixta, Ladina (de ascendencia mixta indígena y europea) y Garífuna (de ascendencia afrocaribeña), con orgullo en su herencia. El papá no estaba en la ciudad cuando nos quedamos con su familia debido a la falta de empleos en el área. Necesitaba viajar lejos para encontrar trabajo. A veces no podía encontrar trabajo durante largos períodos de tiempo. La mamá tenía una pequeña habitación donde vendía pan que recogía de la panadería a las 4:30 am. Además, vendía algunas “empanadas” caseras que son pequeñas tartas hechas envolviendo una masa alrededor del queso en este caso. Ella vendía la comida para poder mantener a sus hijas. La hija mayor estaba estudiando para ser maestra, pero al mismo tiempo, también necesitaba trabajar para ayudar a la familia y su viaje era largo y sus días eran muy largos también. La hija menor todavía estaba en la escuela secundaria. Ambas hijas eran estudiantes muy dedicadas. Un año después, me enteré de que la salud del padre había empeorado y ya no podía trabajar, y la hija mayor dejó de estudiar para ayudar a su familia.
Esta familia compartió sus vidas con nosotros. Hablamos durante horas contándonos historias familiares divertidas y tristes. Cantamos juntos. Bailamos. Un día ayudé a la mamá a cocinar empanadas a las 4am de la mañana. Mi hija se vistió con algunos de los vestidos de las hijas solo por diversión. Las tres jóvenes jugaron el juego de mesa Dos (una versión del juego Uno en EE. UU.). Tomamos muchas fotos. Compartimos muchas comidas juntas incluso cuando no teníamos hambre en absoluto. Un día mencioné que me gustaba una fruta llamada lichi y al día siguiente tenía muchas esperándome en la casa. Hablamos con el padre por teléfono porque querían compartir eso con nosotros. Éramos una familia unida en un corazón y un alma.
Esto es lo que el hermanamiento nos ofreció a mi hija y a mí, un encuentro real con personas reales, el regalo de luchar por la paz y la justicia junto con nuestros hermanos y hermanas en TNT II. La comprensión de que nuestras familias tenían muchas similitudes, pero también la conciencia de que nuestras ubicaciones geográficas afectaban nuestras oportunidades de forma injusta.
Después de mi visita a TN II en Guatemala, me uní a la comunidad del hermanamiento en Santa Juana de Arco y más tarde me uní a la junta directiva de Iglesias Hermanas. Los Hechos de los Apóstoles dicen: “La multitud de los que creyeron era de un corazón y un alma. Ninguno decía ser suyo lo que poseía, sino que todas las cosas eran de propiedad común.”. Iglesias Hermanas nos ofreció la oportunidad de compartir nuestras vidas, de ser Uno con nuestros hermanos y hermanas en TN II, Guatemala y ese es un regalo que aceptamos. Sé que muchos de ustedes están compartiendo sus vidas con guatemaltecos y salvadoreños, pero siempre hay más espacio para que más personas se unan a nosotros en este camino.
Jan Heikes, a member of the Sister Parish Board of Directors, gave the following talk during a Sister Parish-themed service at Wallingford United Methodist Church in Seattle, Washington. The Sister Parish board rotates the location of meetings to visit current and potential Sister Parish churches. Contact us if you would like to host our board for a meeting. It is a great opportunity to gather and share Sister Parish with more people.
Hi! I’m Jan Heikes from Decorah, Iowa.
Our affiliation with Sister Parish began in about 1996 after my husband, Lee Zook, took a three-week summer course in Guatemala in preparation for course that he was leading for Luther College students. One of the activities was a visit to UPAVIM where he met Dick Fenske, one of Sister Parish’s founders. He came back very excited, and a core group including our current pastor, Jim Dale, started exploring the idea.
After some time of education and discernment, our first delegation traveled to Nebaj, Guatemala in June of 1999. Over the next three years, we had two additional delegations south, and one north. Although none of us considered ourselves financially well off, the living situations of our hosts showed us the reality of how many people lived…dirt floors, cooking over an open fire, hand dug pits in the corn field for bathrooms. But incredible hospitality in sharing all that they had with us, and with those even less fortunate than they were. And we struggled in how to be in solidarity with these folks given our wealth. We financed scholarships and a chicken raising project. I’m not sure exactly what happened…internal conflicts, politics, the leadership not acting on behalf of the entire Nebaj community…it’s all a little murky. And, staff recommended that the relationship end.
I tell you this because we don’t tend to talk about the things that can go wrong. The experience shook us, and it took a couple of years to regroup. Could we really make the same connection with another community like we did with the people of Nebaj? What would be our role in funding projects? How could we make sure that our relationship was based on our solidarity with each other?
But in 2003, we had our first delegation to Potrerillos, El Salvador with delegations going north (January & November of 2005, 2007, 2011, 2013, and 2017) or south (2006 and 2014) every year until 2017. Maria Van Der Maaten & I have been back as part of open delegations, but COVID, Sister Parish active members growing older, and busy schedules interrupted several “almost” delegations. About 2 years ago, the group expanded to include the Congregational UCC across the street.
I continue to be struck by the importance of relationships built through Sister Parish, relationships that have long-lasting impacts even if the contact is not frequent. We know their stories. We can tell their stories. And this is powerful in a community that continues to have an increasing immigrant population that fill jobs in meat packing plants and on farms that would otherwise go unfilled. One of our delegates was a Decorah police officer who wanted to see what life was like for those people that he was running into on the streets. Now, Warren is a big man who towered over most of our friends in El Salvador. And when the host family found out that he was a policeman from the US, they were terrified. This was not the reaction that this teddy bear of a man had expected.
Personally I’ve had to confront and become aware of prejudices that I didn’t think I had…things like poor people aren’t in touch with the political situation. Boy, was I wrong there!!
But, I think that a piece that my younger son, Sam, wrote on return from his first visit as a 14 year old might say it best….
“Since I have come back from El Salvador, I have changed the way that I look at the world, the U.S., and everyday items that are supposedly necessities in America. Potrerillos, where we stayed as a delegation, was the poorest place I have been in all of my life. But it was remarkably one of the places with the most smiles walking the streets… This joyfulness that surrounded me affected the way I acted, and what I did. So when I came back home, I felt almost sad—that I wasn’t in that environment and that I had so many things around to distract me unlike my time in El Salvador.”
¡Hola! Soy Jan Heikes de Decorah, Iowa.
Nuestra conexción con Iglesias Hermanas comenzó alrededor de 1996 después de que mi esposo, Lee Zook, tomó un curso de verano de tres semanas en Guatemala como preparación para el curso que estaba dirigiendo para los estudiantes de la universidsad Luther College. Una de las actividades fue una visita a UPAVIM donde conoció a Dick Fenske, uno de los fundadores de Iglesias Hermanas. Regresó muy entusiasmado y un grupo en nuestra iglesia que incluía a nuestro pastor en ese entonces, Jim Dale, comenzó a explorar la idea.
Después de un tiempo de educación y discernimiento, nuestra primera delegación viajó a Nebaj, Guatemala en junio de 1999. Durante los siguientes tres años, tuvimos dos delegaciones más al sur y una al norte. Aunque ninguno de nosotros nos considerábamos económicamente ricos, las condiciones de vida de nuestro hermanamiento nos mostraron la realidad de cómo vivía mucha gente. También una hospitalidad increíble al compartir todo lo que tenían con nosotros y con aquellos aún más pobres que ellos. Y luchamos para ser solidarios con la gente dada nuestra riqueza. Financiamos becas y un proyecto de cría de pollos. No estoy seguro de qué sucedió exactamente… conflictos internos, política, unos líderes que tal vez no actuaron en nombre de toda la comunidad de Nebaj… todo es un poco confuso. Y el personal de Iglesias Hermanas recomendó que la relación terminara.
Les cuento esto porque no solemos hablar de las cosas que pueden salir mal. La experiencia nos sacudió y nos llevó un par de años reagruparnos. ¿Podríamos realmente establecer la misma conexión con otra comunidad como la que establecimos con la gente de Nebaj? ¿Cuál sería nuestro papel en la financiación de proyectos? ¿Cómo podríamos asegurarnos de que nuestra relación se basara en nuestra solidaridad mutua?
En 2003, tuvimos nuestra primera delegación a nuestro nuevo hermanamiento en Potrerillos, El Salvador, con delegaciones que iban al norte (en 2005, 2007, 2011, 2013 y 2017) y al sur (2006 y 2014) cada año hasta 2017. Maria Van Der Maaten y yo hemos vuelto como parte de delegaciones abiertas, pero el COVID, el envejecimiento de los miembros activos de Iglesias Hermanas y las agendas ocupadas interrumpieron varias delegaciones “casi”. Hace 2 años, el grupo se expandió para incluir a la la Iglesia Unida Congregacional al otro lado de la calle.
Sigo sorprendiéndome por la importancia de los hermanamientos construidos a través de Iglesias Hermanas, relaciones que tienen impactos duraderos incluso si el contacto no es frecuente. Conocemos la historia. Podemos contar sus historias. Y esto es poderoso en una comunidad que sigue teniendo una población inmigrante en aumento que ocupa puestos de trabajo en plantas empacadoras de carne y en granjas que de otra manera quedarían vacantes. Uno de nuestros delegados era un policía de Decorah que quería ver cómo era la vida de las personas con las que se cruzaba en la calle en Decorah. Warren es un hombre corpulento que superaba en altura a la mayoría de nuestros amigos de El Salvador. Y cuando la familia anfitriona descubrió que era un policía de los Estados Unidos, se aterrorizaron. Esta no era la reacción que este hombre con corazón grande esperaba.
Personalmente, he tenido que enfrentarme y tomar conciencia de prejuicios que no creía tener… cosas como que la gente pobre no está en contacto con la situación política. ¡Vaya, estaba muy equivocada!
Creo que un texto que mi hijo menor, Sam, escribió al regresar de su primera visita a los 14 años lo explica mejor…
“Desde que regresé de El Salvador, he cambiado la forma en que veo el mundo, los Estados Unidos y los artículos cotidianos que supuestamente son necesidades en Estados Unidos. Potrerillos, donde nos quedamos como delegación, fue el lugar más pobre en el que he estado en toda mi vida. Pero, sorprendentemente, era uno de los lugares con más sonrisas al caminar por las calles… Esta alegría que me rodeaba afectó la forma en que actuaba y lo que hacía. Así que cuando regresé a casa, me sentí casi triste, porque no estaba en ese entorno y tenía tantas cosas a mi alrededor que me distraían, a diferencia de mi tiempo en El Salvador.”
In April 2024, Danville Congregational Church hosted a Sister Parish Sunday that included special hymns, a children’s message about Holy Week traditions in Guatemala, video messages and prayer requests from their sister community in San Antonio, Guatemala and a sermon from Sister Parish staff Carrie Stengel (below). The service was livestreamed so that people in San Antonio could watch.
Mark 6:7-10
Calling the Twelve to him, he began to send them out two by two and gave them authority over impure spirits. These were his instructions: “Take nothing for the journey except a staff—no bread, no bag, no money in your belts. Wear sandals but not an extra shirt. Whenever you enter a house, stay there until you leave that town.
Good morning, Buenos Días, Saqarik (in Maya Quiche to San Antonio watching now).
On one of my first delegations with Sister Parish, an elder in the community told our group that we were like the 12 disciples sent out by Jesus in the reading today. They were told to bring nothing but their staff and their clothes and to stay in the homes of the people they visited. This elder told us we were doing God’s work just like the disciples, just by visiting.
We were struck and moved by his comment. We hadn’t thought of it that way and weren’t sure how the community saw us, though it is true that some of us felt called to be there.
We had come to humbly accept radical hospitality, to approach this relationship not as helper and helped, but as equals, each serving both as the giver and the receiver while also recognizing the inequalities of the world. Though we did bring more than just a staff and clothes in our suitcases, in other ways, we brought very little. No health brigade, no building project. We hoped to build bridges of a different kind. As Pope Francis said, God had come and called us out of our house, to be encountered so as to encounter others.
Since 2011, Sister Parish, the non-profit organization I work with, has had the honor of facilitating DCC’s relationship with the Catholic Community of San Antonio in Guatemala – it is a small church in a rural Indigenous Maya Quiche community. We facilitate similar relationships for 10 other U.S. churches, from Maine to Seattle to Minnesota, and each of them has a partner community in Guatemala or El Salvador. As an organization, we connect people, provide opportunities for cultural and faith-based exchanges. At our best, we also foster a commitment to social justice that is both local and global.
12 years ago, I visited San Antonio for the first time. In the house I stayed in, the two teenagers took care of me. Erica and Olga made sure I had enough to eat and that I was warm enough and not lonely at night. They taught me how to sing “Head, shoulders, knees and toes” in the Maya Quiche language so we could entertain their nieces and nephews while their mothers made tortillas and beans for 12 of us. Paola sang us hymns as we fell asleep.
There, on that day, I started building bridges, not out of cement or brick or metal, but out of moments of connection. Over the years, I have added many other moments to what I carry in my heart.
As we have shared our joys. I remember Juana and Ana teaching me their dance routine for a school performance and hanging out with Yoselin and Leslie in Antigua during a visit from DCC. On another visit with DCC, Tomás surprised our group, taking us to a beautiful mountain lookout and serving us “shecas”, the special bread served with honey during Holy Week that I showed a picture of during the children’s message. Tomás and the community didn’t want us to miss out on this special community tradition just because we visited a few weeks before Holy Week.
We have shared our struggles too. I remember talking with one woman in San Antonio after her son left for the U.S. He had not found work in Guatemala and had two little kids to support. She hadn’t heard from him for days. She found out later he had made it, but at that time she didn’t know if he was dead or alive. Many mothers never even get an answer to that question. During the pandemic they told me the young men were leaving in “truckloads”. Over the years, we have prayed for many members of both San Antonio and DCC who have lost loved ones, faced illness or long struggles with addiction. When 16-year-old Caty from San Antonio passed away, we grieved for her and the grief was double for me knowing that the injustice of poverty and entrenched racism played a role in her death. In San Antonio they received our prayers for Caty and sent videos of the funeral march. They know that Caty’s picture sits on DCC’s altar during the All Saints Day mass.
We have shared our movements and resilience. I remember Pedro talking to DCC about the historical and ongoing displacement of Indigenous peoples in Guatemala and the creative organizing happening now to protect Indigenous territory and Mother Earth. Last fall, Indigenous leaders in Guatemala led the nation-wide efforts to protect democracy and the elected president was able to take office thanks, in part, to their efforts. When a group from San Antonio came up to visit DCC, they learned about the church’s call as an open and affirming church and the movements in the U.S. to promote the rights of the LGBTQIA+ community.
We have shared our faith. I remember San Antonio’s reflection after visiting DCC. “We learned a new way to pray,” they told me. In Danville, they hold hands, uniting with each other and with God. “We will do that now,” they said.
I remember 12-year-old David’s reflection after visiting San Antonio. We asked him what he gave and what he received, and he told us, “I gave my time and I received the truth.”
That’s just it. Through Sister Parish, we expand our circle of understanding and we deepen our faith. We are called to our visits and our encountering of each other, not just because we enjoy it and we learn from it, though those are both good things. We are called to it because of God’s love for us and for the human dignity of all people. All those moments of connection I now carry in my heart add up to love.
In a world that seeks to divide us by nation, by language, by racism and classism, by the haves and have nots of the world, what is more transformational than connecting across those barriers? What force is more powerful than love in changing the global systems of oppression that divide us and obscure our shared humanity? You simply cannot view injustice with indifference or apathy when the people you love are harmed by it. Though it can be hard to see from here, the struggles for justice in the U.S. and Guatemala are inextricably linked.
The bridges we build cannot be built in a matter of days or weeks. We build them over time, in the moments we listen together, pray together, laugh together, and speak out against injustice together. If a group of delegates from the U.S. is like the 12 disciples, then so too is San Antonio, as we minister to each other.
And we invite you all to join us. You can connect with the Sister Parish committee here, help plan activities, join a call with San Antonio, or travel to Guatemala. There is an opportunity this November to travel with Trish and others from DCC who will join a Sister Parish trip to Guatemala and El Salvador – please reach out if you are interested in learning more.
The reading from Micah today asks, “And what does the Lord require of you?” The answer is straightforward, though not always easy in practice, “To do justice, to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” This is what Sister Parish calls us to do.
Because of the relationship built over many years, you are invited into something that I believe is sacred and holy. You are invited to eat beans and tortillas over an open fire, to carry water from the well, to sing “head, shoulders, knees and toes” in Maya Quiche, to kneel on the floor of a rural church in Guatemala as you pray in 3 languages, to join hands in prayer and action to change injustice, and to share your own knowledge and gifts. It is not always easy. Sometimes it is awkward, sometimes it is hard and painful.
But you are invited in in the spirit of love. And you are invited to let that love and humility transform you as we work together toward that better world we need and know is possible.
In the video below, Pedro and Gabriel from San Antonio talk about what the Sister Parish relationship means to them and their community.
En el video arriba, Pedro y Gabriel hablan de lo que significa el hermanamiento para ellos y su comunidad.
En abril de 2024, la Iglesia Congregacional de Danville organizó un servicio para celebrar su hermanamiento que incluyó himnos especiales, un mensaje para niños sobre las tradiciones de la Semana Santa en Guatemala, mensajes en video e intenciones de su comunidad hermana en San Antonio, Guatemala y un sermón de Carrie Stengel, miembro Iglesias Hermanas (abajo). El servicio se transmitió en vivo para que la gente de San Antonio pudiera verlo.
Marcos 6:7-10
Llamando a los Doce, comenzó a enviarlos de dos en dos y les dio autoridad sobre los espíritus impuros. Estas fueron sus instrucciones: “No llevéis nada para el viaje excepto un bastón: ni pan, ni bolsa, ni dinero en vuestros cinturones. Usen sandalias pero no una camisa extra. Siempre que entres en una casa, quédate allí hasta que salgas de ese pueblo.”
Good morning, Buenos Días, Saqarik (en Maya Quiché para los de San Antonio viéndonos ahora).
En una de mis primeras delegaciones con Iglesias Hermanas, un anciano de la comunidad nos dijo a nuestro grupo que éramos como los 12 discípulos enviados por Jesús en la lectura de hoy. Se les dijo que no trajeran nada más que sus artículos personales y su ropa y que se quedaran en las casas de las personas que visitaban. Este anciano nos dijo que estábamos haciendo la obra de Dios al igual que los discípulos, con sólo visitarlos.
Su comentario nos impresionó y nos conmovió. No lo habíamos pensado así y no estábamos seguros de cómo nos veía la comunidad, aunque es cierto que algunos nos sentíamos llamados a estar ahí. Habíamos llegado a aceptar humildemente la hospitalidad radical, a abordar este hermanamiento no como servidor y servido, sino como iguales, cada uno dando y recibiendo a la vez, y al mismo tiempo reconociendo las desigualdades del mundo. Aunque trajimos mucho más que un bastón y ropa en nuestras maletas, en otros aspectos trajimos muy poco. Ni brigada de salud, ni proyecto de construcción. Esperábamos construir puentes de otro tipo. Como decía el Papa Francisco, Dios vino y nos llamó a salir de nuestra casa, para encontrarnos a nosotros mismos y reencontrarnos con los demás.
Desde 2011, Iglesias Hermanas, la organización sin fines de lucro con la que trabajo, ha tenido el honor de facilitar la relación de la iglesia de Danville con la Comunidad Católica de San Antonio en Guatemala: es una pequeña iglesia en una comunidad rural indígena maya quiché. Facilitamos otros hermanamientos similares para otras 10 iglesias estadounidenses, desde Maine hasta Seattle y Minnesota, y cada una de ellas tiene una comunidad hermana en Guatemala o El Salvador. Como organización, conectamos a las personas y brindamos oportunidades para intercambios culturales y religiosos. En el mejor de los casos, también fomentamos un compromiso con la paz y la justicia que es tanto local como global.
Hace 12 años visité San Antonio por primera vez. En la casa donde me quedé, los dos adolescentes me cuidaron. Erica y Olga se aseguraron de que tuviera suficiente comida y de que estuviera lo suficientemente abrigada y que no se sintiera sola por la noche. Me enseñaron a cantar “Cabeza, hombros, rodillas y pies” en el idioma maya quiché para que pudiéramos entretener a sus sobrinos y sobrinas mientras sus madres hacían tortillas y frijoles para 12 de nosotros. Paola nos cantó himnos mientras nos dormíamos.
Allí, ese día, comencé a construir puentes, no con cemento, ladrillo o metal, sino con momentos de conexión. A lo largo de los años, he compartido muchos otros momentos que ahora llevo en mi corazón. Hemos compartido nuestras alegrías. Recuerdo a Juana y Ana enseñándome su rutina de baile para una presentación escolar y recuerdo como Yoselin y Leslie jugaban con mi hijo en Antigua durante una visita con la iglesia de Danville. En otra visita, Tomás sorprendió a nuestro grupo, llevándonos a un hermoso mirador de montaña. Nos dieron “shecas”, el pan especial servido con miel durante la Semana Santa (mostré una foto durante el mensaje de los niños). Tomás y la comunidad no querían que perdiéramos esta tradición comunitaria especial solo porque visitamos unas semanas antes de Semana Santa.
También hemos compartido momentos difíciles. Recuerdo haber hablado con una mujer en San Antonio después de que su hijo se fue a los Estados Unidos. No había encontrado trabajo en Guatemala y tenía dos hijos pequeños que tenía que mantener. Hacía días que no sabía nada de él. Más tarde descubrió que él lo había logrado, pero en ese momento no sabía si estaba vivo o muerto. Muchas madres ni siquiera obtienen una respuesta a esa pregunta. Durante la pandemia me dijeron que los jóvenes se iban al Norte en “camiones llenos”. A lo largo de los años, hemos orado por muchos miembros tanto de San Antonio como de la iglesia de Danville que han perdido a seres queridos, han enfrentado enfermedades o han luchado durante mucho tiempo contra la adicción. Cuando falleció Caty, de 16 años, de San Antonio, lamentamos su muerte y lloramos. En San Antonio recibieron nuestras oraciones por Caty y enviaron videos de la marcha fúnebre. Saben que la fotografía de Caty se encuentra en el altar del la iglesia de Danville durante la misa del Día de Todos los Santos.
Hemos compartido nuestras luchas y resiliencia. Recuerdo que Pedro habló con la iglesia de Danville sobre el desplazamiento histórico y actual de los pueblos indígenas en Guatemala y la organización creativa que se está llevando a cabo ahora para proteger el territorio indígena y la Madre Tierra. El otoño pasado, los líderes indígenas de Guatemala lideraron los esfuerzos a nivel nacional para proteger la democracia y el presidente electo pudo asumir el cargo gracias, en parte, a sus esfuerzos. Cuando un grupo de San Antonio vino a visitar la iglesia de Danville, aprendieron sobre el llamado de la iglesia como una iglesia abierta y afirmativa y los movimientos en los EE. UU. para promover los derechos de la comunidad de la diversidad sexual.
Hemos compartido nuestra fe. Recuerdo la reflexión de San Antonio luego de visitar a la iglesia de Danville. “Aprendimos una nueva forma de orar”, me dijeron. En Danville, se toman de la mano, uniéndose entre sí y con Dios. “Lo haremos también ahora”, dijeron.
Recuerdo la reflexión de David, de 12 años, después de visitar San Antonio. Le preguntamos qué había dado y qué había recibido durante el viaje y nos dijo: “Di mi tiempo y recibí la verdad”.
Es eso. En Iglesias Hermanas, ampliamos nuestro círculo de entendimiento y profundizamos nuestra fe. Estamos llamados a nuestras visitas y a nuestro encuentro mutuo, no sólo porque lo disfrutamos y aprendemos de ello, aunque ambas son cosas buenas. Estamos llamados a ello por el amor de Dios por nosotros y por la dignidad de todas las personas. Todos esos momentos de conexión que ahora llevo en mi corazón se suman al amor.
En un mundo que nos divide por nación, por idioma, por racismo y clasismo, por los que tienen y los que no tienen, ¿qué es más transformador que conectarse a través de esas barreras? ¿Qué fuerza es más poderosa que el amor para cambiar los sistemas globales de opresión que nos dividen y oscurecen nuestra humanidad compartida? Simplemente no puedes ver la injusticia con indiferencia o apatía cuando las personas que amas resultan perjudicadas por ella. Aunque puede ser difícil verlo desde los Estados Unidos, las luchas por la paz y la justicia en Estados Unidos y Guatemala están totalmente vinculadas.
Los puentes que construimos no se pueden construir en cuestión de días o semanas. Los construimos con el tiempo, en los momentos en que escuchamos juntos, oramos juntos, reímos juntos y hablamos juntos contra la injusticia. Si un grupo de delegados de los EE.UU. es como los 12 discípulos, entonces San Antonio también lo es, mientras nos ministramos unos a otros.
Y los invitamos a todos a unirse a nosotros. Puede conectarse con el comité del hermanamiento aquí en la iglesia de Danville, ayudar a planificar actividades, unirse a una llamada con San Antonio o viajar a Guatemala. Este noviembre existe la oportunidad de viajar con Trish y otras personas de DCC que se unirán a un viaje de Iglesias Hermanas a Guatemala y El Salvador; comuníquese con nosotros si está interesado en obtener más información.
La lectura de Miqueas de hoy pregunta: “¿Y qué requiere el Señor de ti?” La respuesta es sencilla, aunque no siempre fácil en la práctica: “Hacer justicia, amar la misericordia y caminar humildemente con tu Dios”. Esto es lo que Iglesias Hermanas nos llama a hacer.
Debido a la relación construida durante muchos años, estás invitado a algo que es sagrado y bonito. Estás invitado a comer frijoles y tortillas a fuego abierto, a sacar agua del pozo, a cantar “cabeza, hombros, rodillas y pies” en maya quiché, a arrodillarte en el suelo de una iglesia rural en Guatemala mientras oras en 3 idiomas, para unir tus manos en oración y tus esfuerzos en acción para cambiar la injusticia y compartir tus propios conocimientos y dones. No siempre es fácil. A veces es incómodo, a veces es duro y doloroso.
Pero estás invitado a entrar con un espíritu de amor. Y estás invitado a dejar que el amor y la humildad te transformen mientras trabajamos juntos hacia ese mundo mejor que tanto necesitamos. Sabemos que es posible.
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